Um...a question

I've searched all over LJ and just can't find it...how do I go about making my LJ friends only, and have a nifty post that everyone can see with the FO banner like I've seen some people have (not looking at essene, cause her pretty journal doesn't make me jealous at all).

Not even the FAQ is helping me. It tells me how to do it, but won't tell me where to go to do what it is that I need to do.

And dammit, I need some sugar.