Yeah, I know I just posted, but this just came up

[luvxander]

How do you deal with a guy you really really really like, and he likes you back...and you get to hug him a lot and when you go to the movies, you cuddle up together and watch them. But you don't go any farther than that, and when other people are around, you can't even do that much?

I really like him, even though he's not what people would think would be my type, but I'm not sure if he's really in it for anything other than friendship.

Comments

[jillapet.livejournal.com]

Ask him.

Or, lay a big old kiss on him. That is what I would do..

Actually, I would probably give him a big old blow job, but hey-we have already established that I am a slut.

The best relationships start with friendship!

*hugs*

[luvxander.livejournal.com]

I actually plan on asking him outright tomorrow night. He's coming up to where I work. But do I really want to get involved with someone I won't be able to be publicly affectionate with? Or that won't even admit that he's gay? Looks like we have a lot of serious talking to do before we even contemplate going into any kind of relationship.

But, this all may be moot. I mean, look at me! And he's younger and way cuter and way cooler.

[wirrrn.livejournal.com]

Hey,

If he'd cuddling you at the movies and then supressing the PDA around other folks, sounds like he's already into you dude. Just ask him.

Good luck. And post pictures and video footage where appropriate *g*

[luvxander.livejournal.com]

Yes, but up until now, all evidence says that he's 100% straight, he says he's Bi, I've never even heard him mention another guy, and all he talks about are hot chicks. I just don't want to ruin a friendship over something that could be him just being a goofy friend.

[wirrrn.livejournal.com]

Hey,

send out some tentative feelers then...

[luvxander.livejournal.com]

Dammit, I knew I shouldn't have left all the feelers in the shop.

[wirrrn.livejournal.com]

Hey,

Hee!

Just think to yourself...What Would Non-Closeted Xander Do?! *g*

[mwrgana.livejournal.com]

...I'm not sure if he's really in it for anything other than friendship...

If he's got one, he is! And to hell with LIKE - do you FANCY him? I the latter, go for it; if more of the former and less of the latter then bear in mind you might end up with a sex fiend you no longer want as a lover but just a friend! (Or is that just me???)

[kaydee23.livejournal.com]

He's hugging and cuddling with you? He has to like you, but sorry, I suck in the romance department. I have no idea how to get it to go further. If I did, I'd tell you. (((hugs)))